Well, after a few short days, Jen is caving on this fostering thing. Predictably, she wants to keep Cosita. Now that she has been posted on SFTH she is growing increasingly possessive. While I also love Cosita, if we keep her we will not be able to continue fostering; and, she will be able to find a great family because she is so great. Of course, if for some reason, nobody great came along I would be delighted to add her to our family but I suspect that will not be an issue. Jen usually wins all of our family debates so we shall see if this will be different. At least we have two great options: adopt Cosita or find her a great family. Either way, I will put it in the win column.